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Monday, 23 May 2005

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This week's article: A big part of meeting your "perfect" mate lies in you having the confidence needed in order to approach her. Just in all parts of life, if you wish to be successful, you need to be sure of yourself. So, if you have low self-confidence, here are a few things that you can do to improve upon it...

The first way in which you can go about building up your confidence is both quick and easy. You simply need to take a look at your car. You know how disgusting it feels when your car is dirty on the inside and the outside as well. Now think about when it is clean on the inside and the outside . . . Your car not only feels better but it also runs better. Simply by cleaning up your car you will have more confidence since you no longer have to worry about it embarrassing you. After all, one of the worst things that could happen is that you would turn a girl off simply because you didn't bother to keep your car clean. 

Now, let's take this one step further . . . 

If your car is all rusty and dented you should do whatever is necessary to fix it up. While this may not be cheap, but just think about how your self-confidence wavers whenever you are driving around in an old, rusty clunker. This does not mean that you need to have an expensive car to impress her, but you do need a car that is well kept. Nevertheless, it does need to be done because you do not want a woman to think that you are a slob, poor, or have no ambition or pride.

As a side note, this same thing is also true about your living space. It also needs to be clean and well kept or you will have your mate thinking poorly of you as well.

The second thing that you can do in order to build up your confidence is to increase your knowledge. In this manner, you will start to believe that you are interesting enough to talk to and attract a partner. You will also no longer find yourself being left out of a conversation because you do not know anything about the subject that is being discussed.

It is simple and painless for you to be able to increase your knowledge base. Basically you just need to pick up a newspaper and read it from cover to cover in order to know something about today's current events and points of interest. Another way of doing this is by looking at the home page of your Internet service. You just simply want to be on the up and up with current events so that you are not left searching for something to say if the subject of "current events" happens to come up.

If you want to learn about other topics, besides current events, check out the books entitled the "Idiots Guide" or "Dummies." These books will give you a crash course on an endless number of topics. Look specifically at the books they have about culture. Such things as wine tasting, opera, film trivia, cooking, etc. Read as many of them as you possibly can. After all, you can never know too much.

You need to realize that you are not studying to become an expert, you are only seeking to know as much as necessary in order to be able to carry on a friendly, knowledgeable conversation. By reading the newspaper, as well as these books, you will be expanding your horizons which will in turn help you to be a guy that women find interesting . . . A guy with whom women actually want to spend time around. After all, you will never be lost in a conversation again. Nor will you ever be lost, searching for a conversation in order to avoid those awkward moments.

Now that you have done these things to improve your self-confidence, you are ready to meet your "perfect" mate. You should now have high self-confidence, the confidence you need to approach her successfully. Now it is time to go out and do it!

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