Written by Ashley

Monday, 27 June 2005

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This week's article: As a woman, I have noticed that some men seemingly ignore women's natures while expecting their woman to accommodate theirs. It is understandable that men want excitement, experimentation, cheerleading outfits, handcuffs, anal sex, and the like...

Dating and Relationship AdviceHowever, some men simply are not willing to approach these goals in a manner that addresses the peculiar needs of most women. Of course there are a few women out there who love sex so much that they are more than ready to provide the cheerleading outfits and handcuffs. Nevertheless, most of these woman are already porn stars, or not with you, or married to your best friend. The remaining women, which makes up the majority of women, need a bit of coaxing to use these different "techniques" in their bedrooms. So, what this comes down to is . . . Do you know what it takes to please a woman in bed? Her needs may be more complicated than yours, but once you are able master the basics, you will delight her always. Here are some tips to help you along.

Before you even think of entering the bedroom, you need to understand that some women are very self-conscious about their bodies. If your wife or girlfriend is this way, do not criticize her figure or the size of her breasts. In fact, do not call any attention to her body at all. Instead, take time to enjoy her body with your eyes and your hands, not with your words. You can show your female lover just how much you care about her by giving her small tokens of your affection. Flowers, candy, and love notes all tell her how much you're thinking of her and how precious she is to you. It is also important that whenever the feeling comes over you, that you tell your woman that you love her. She will know just how much you genuinely mean it.

You will want to make sure that you smell good. Don't expect your wife or girlfriend to be with you after you have just worked out, or after you just put in a good physical day of labor. Take a shower first! While you do not need to be perfumed, you do need to smell clean and manly. 

Another thing that is important to do is make sure that birth control is a mutual responsibility. You should never leave it totally up to your woman, unless she requests that you do so.

Once you do get your wife or girlfriend into the bedroom, begin by making sure that you actually have time to spend making love. Understand that while you may be ready to go, physically it takes a woman's body longer to become aroused. This is why foreplay is so important. So, take the time to caress her body, not just her erogenous zones. When she is ready for you to move onto those zones, her body will let you know.

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As you move onto these erogenous zones, it is important to understand that each woman is different here. While some women enjoy having their nipples stroked and sucked, other women do not enjoy this at all. Therefore, you will need to take your time discovering precisely where your woman enjoys being touched. Do not get frustrated here, and do not frustrate her by doing something that will not please her. This would also be a great time to introduce your partner to the pleasures of oral sex. 

Here is where it is important to know and understand how a woman's body works. Discover where her G-spot is, and learn what her Kegel muscles do during intercourse. Learning about these things will teach you how to cause your woman to have multiple orgasms. They will also help you to provide an intense, yet very satisfying, experience for your woman. For instance, if you locate her clitoris and stroke it with your tongue you will brings her to a great climax.

You will also want to keep things in your bedroom lively by trying different sex positions to see which ones maximize pleasure for the both of you. The women-on-top position generally gives you the kind of contact that delivers the best results.

Just as in all aspects of life, you need to remember that women come first. If your wife or girlfriend tells you that sex is out of the question tonight, accept it. There is always tomorrow, or a little bit later on that same day. When you do have sex, whenever it is possible, you should let her orgasm before you do. 

If you are a man who is willing to learn about and understand women's natures, your wife or girlfriend will more than likely be willing to accommodate your needs and desires. You may just get your cheerleader who handcuffs you to your bed post and takes it up the ass for you. So, yes, it is worth learning to please your woman in bed. Simply master the basics, and you will delight her always.

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