Written by Ashley

Monday, 01 August 2005

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This week's article: While you have met many people in your life, not many of those people have been your ideal mate. Sure some of them have been very attractive, but once you get to know them they may not seem so wonderful. That's all right though. In order to find the right person you may have to go through a large number of people...

Dating & Relationship AdviceSo, how do you go about increasing your odds? How do you meet more women so that you can find Miss Right? Here are some ideas for you to follow.

(1.) Decide what you are looking for in a partner. However, you don't want to be too picky.

(2.) Make sure that you are open and aware of people regardless of where you go or what you do. You never know when you will meet Miss Right, so you need to remain open to saying "hello" to a wide variety of people.

(3.) Be willing and open to a wide variety of places in which you can meet singles. This includes chat rooms, personal ads, singles organizations, classes, stores, etc. REMEMBER, you will need to meet a large variety of women before you are going to find the one that meets your "requirements" for what you are looking for in a woman.

(4.) Whenever you go out, dress for success! This doesn't mean that you have to always dress as though you were going to work or out clubbing. It simply means that you don't go out of the house wearing sweats, ratty pants, or t-shirts with holes in them.

(5.) Make it a point to say "hello" to everyone, regardless of where you are. How do you do this? Look them in the eye and smile, then simply say "hello." 

(6.) Let your friends and family know that you are single and looking. You never know who they may know, either from work or from their own social lives, who would be a great match for you. 

(7.) Try new things . . . Get a new hobby. By doing things that you are interested in, you become a more interesting person. Plus, you will get to meet other people who are interested in it as well. 

(8.) Go out to the local night clubs. Don't look at this as a chore! You can easily find women here that are open and available. 

(9.) Many people unconsciously close themselves off to others. How? By averting their eyes, crossing their arms, and then turning themselves away. So, be aware of your body’s posture and use it to tell others that you are approachable.

Of course, throughout all of this you still have to be concerned about protecting yourself. The person you meet may not be who they first appear to be. So, while you want to be open to new people, you still don't want to give out personal information too quickly.

In the end, you will want to take some time to get to know new people in hopes of meeting your ideal mate. Keep in mind that while these people may be attractive, they may not be ideal. That is all right. Simply remind yourself that you are going to have to meet numerous people before you really do meet Miss Right. Good luck!

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© 2005, Kevin Godbee

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"Women. Can't live with them. Can't kill them." - Tom Arnold, True Lies. You can "Ask Ashley" and get advice directly from a woman on how to deal with these creatures us men love, but can't figure out. Check back each week for a new article and feel free to email your questions directly to This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it . Maybe she'll write on article based on your question.

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