This week's article: There are ten reasons why a woman is turned on, or impressed, by a man. These include:
1. You do not have to be a "nice guy" in order to get the women that you
want. You simply have to be confident in the person that you really are. Why
is this the case? Simply put, women do not base their romantic choices upon
how "nice" a guy is. They choose whom they want to date based upon what their
gut tells them. That is why you will find a lot of really attractive women
who are attracted to "jerks." So, stop trying to be so nice and start being
yourself! You will soon discover that more women are attracted to the "real"
you instead of the "fake" you.
2. Realize that you are never going to be able to change the way that a woman
feels about you. You simply cannot convince a woman to like you, especially
not by using "logic and reasoning." Think about it. If a woman does not
"feel" attracted to you, how can you change that feeling by reasoning with
her? You can't! So stop begging, pleading, and chasing women around.
Instead, as I mentioned in rule number one, be yourself. She is more likely
to be impressed by the real you than by the immature you that is chasing her
around acting like a teenager with raging hormones.
3. Do not look to a woman for approval or permission! For some reason, men,
in their desire to impress a woman, are always doing things to gain a woman's
"approval" or "permission." This is a horrible idea as women are never
impressed by the type of guy who is constantly trying to kiss up to them. Of
course, this does not mean that you should treat a woman badly, but if you
think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and
permission for things", think again. You will never succeed in impressing a
woman by looking for her approval, instead you will only annoy her as you
begin to look like a "wuss".
4. You cannot impress a woman by buying her things. It is only natural that
if you try to take a woman out to a nice dinner, and buy her gifts and
flowers, she will reject you for someone who didn't treat her even half as
well as you did. Why? Because you are sending her the message that, "I don't
think that you will like me for who I am, so I have to buy you things to
impress you." While your intentions may be good, they usually come across
looking like over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation.
5. Early on in the relationship is not the right time for you to be sharing
how you feel about her. This is especially true if you are dating an attractive woman. These women are approached all day long by men telling them
how interested they are with them and how much they really like them. So, if
you want to impress a woman, and stand out from the crowd, don't be telling
her, "You know, I really, really like you" after only one or two dates.
6. Women are impressed by a man who understands what attraction means to
them. While for men it usually means seeing a beautiful, young, sexy woman
and becoming sexually attracted, for women this is not so. Women, on the
other hand, are not attracted by looks. Instead, they are attracted by
certain qualities in a man that makes them feel important. By correctly using
your body language and communication, you can make women feel the same kind of
powerful sexual attraction to you that you feel when you see a hot, sexy young
woman. This does not happen by accident though. You will have to take time
to learn how to impress and attract the right woman.
7. Women are not impressed by money and looks. If you have a great personality, you are more than likely going to impress a woman more than a man
with a fat wallet and good looks. If you use your body language and communication to show her that you are confident in yourself, then she will be
impressed by you.
8. Women do not want to have all the power in a relationship. They are not
impressed by a guy who will do whatever they want him to do, and thus comes
across looking like a wimp. If a woman can walk all over you, then she will
not be impressed by you.
9. Women are impressed by men who know what to do in every situation. While
it may be hard to believe, women always know what you are thinking because
they are better at reading body language than men are. So, don't just sit
there and be nervous, make the move regardless of how bad you may fumble
through it. This will surely impress a woman more than watching you just sit
there acting like a bumbling fool.
10. Women are impressed by men who are willing to ask for help when they need
it. While guys do not want to look weak or helpless, you need to understand
that this is more impressive to a woman than watching you look like a fool.
So, what does this all come down to? Really it all adds up to one thing:
self-confidence. If you are not able to be confident with who and what you
are, then you are never going to be able to impress a woman.
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