I'm so glad someone asked this question. I was thinking the same thing myself, although I'm not sure how someone could describe it.
I've tried different things as well, slightly inhaling a little occasionally, taking a draw and letting the smoke gently float around my head as I breath it in through my nose, etc... Its all been fun, but I still only taste tobacco and sometimes the spice from a tasty wrapper. I do notice a difference in the tobacco taste, but I can't pinpoint yet exactly what it is that makes it different.
Right now, I have the best experience when I don't worry too much about it and just kick back and enjoy the smoke. Aaaaahhhhh....
I will definitely try slowing down a bit, sticking to the "draw a minute" rule. Maybe forcing myself to put the stogie down between hits.
-M