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Bullybreed · 11-10-2007, 12:48 AM

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Originally Posted by discdog

You don't have to be single to do that! Hell, I've been married 26 years and have always done what I wanted. I believe it's all in the training.lol

lol ya then you wake up and realize that it will only stay a dream

bobaganoosh · 11-10-2007, 12:48 AM

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Originally Posted by CigarRob

Say it with me...

Cigar Mistress.

that's HAWT... Rob may be on to somethin...

Ceedee · 11-10-2007, 01:33 AM

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Originally Posted by discdog

Start leaving magazines and information about a new hobby lying around. Guns, restoring cars, sports memorabillia, coins. Once she realizes you are going to have hobbies, cigars won't seem all that bad.
If none of these phase her, try bass fishing.

Sage advice right there...

CD

happy1 · 11-10-2007, 06:09 AM

I just do it and she never said anything,I can do about anything I want

Fr8dog · 11-10-2007, 08:00 AM

Any hobby is a good hobby. Cigars are lots less expensive than cars, or motorcycles, and usually a lot safer. Get your bride to go smoke one with you and talk. They like to talk! Talk about the boobies of the girls on-stage, or if three pair beats a flush?

nsure: Enable her to empower you

Rob, congrats on the new bambino!

tobacmon · 11-10-2007, 08:47 AM

I think you have to take all things in consideration--i.e., kids, bills etc.. My kids are both grown and we just have 2 little ones--Cat & Dog.

My wife actually is very good when it comes to cigar purchases--now more then before because she partakes in the consumption---SO GET HER HOOKED!!! Recently I have not been able to purchase what I normally do because she is just starting back to work after a car accident. Had to put Gars on hold.

My wife gave me permission (we agreed) to purchase a new set of golf irons and she also got the same amount of money to get what she wanted. 50/50 I always say. If I work side work and make say $500 bucks I'll come home and give her $200 to spend on something she would enjoy. I will purchase my smokes and there you go--all is bliss.

Marlboro Cigars-cl · 11-10-2007, 08:51 AM

Get her addicted!!

Lok17 · 11-10-2007, 09:31 AM

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Originally Posted by kass

No problems from my girlfriend... but my mom doesn't shut up about it. "Your gonna get cancer, its not healthy, only old men smoke cigars, they stink, your wasting your money, the next package that comes I'm going to throw away." She also just recently found my cooler, until then she only knew I had a little 20 ct humi, don't know how she didn't realize that all the cigars I was buying wouldn't be able to fit in it. hahah...Man, living at home sucks...

Ya but you have tons of cash for cigars cause you live at home

zion698 · 11-10-2007, 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by terrasco

My wife never gripes about the amount of money I spend on cigars (though she really doesn't have a clue). She doesn't gripe about my spending because she doesn't want me to question her spending.

The biggest advantage that I have, is that smoking cigars caused me to pay more attention to my wife. I would go out on the porch to smoke a cigar and she would join me. She has my attention for as long as the cigar burns. It was the best thing that ever happened to our marriage. I am calm and content and more open to hearing her thoughts and issues. Before, I never sat long enough to pay attention to her unless it was on the computer or in front of the tv. When I watch tv or use the computer it is easy to ignore her. If I am sitting outside enjoying a cigar, she has much more of my attention. Even though she doesn't smoke cigars, she enjoys the time we spend while I smoke. We watch far less tv and have grown much closer. In some ways it has saved our marriage.

I would suggest trying to include your wife in your cigar habit.

Now that's good stuff.

ozzyfan · 11-10-2007, 05:26 PM

I am glad I am single

kass · 11-10-2007, 06:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Lok17

Ya but you have tons of cash for cigars cause you live at home

Can't argue with that!

Another good point someone made was that a hobby is a hobby whatever it is its gonna cost you. I realized this last month when I was camping at Coya Costa state park. One of the rangers brought out his telescope one night and let everyone look through it and showed us a bunch of constelations and stars. It was really cool. Well, his telescope cost around $15,000! quite a bit to put into a hobby. We were all suprosed at how much he put into his hobby. But then one of the other guys there was saying that I guess its no different than him buying a $30,000 fishing boat.

Deaghatha · 11-13-2007, 01:23 AM

Divorce is one solution, LOL!

I've never been married so I'm sorry but I can't offer you any advice. Relationships are about give and take and cigar smoking shouldn't be a deal breaker.

The Korean-cl · 11-13-2007, 01:41 AM

The wife and I have a great agreement, we don't ask questions. We both trust each other to know how much we can spend on our habits or hobbies without putting us in a bind. The only bad thing about our arangement is often times we compete, if she comes home with a $300 purse, I make a purchase or one of my hobbies. Through it all, we manage to keep it to a manageable spending. What also gets us in trouble, is neither one of us are patient, we are planning on for a trip Thanksgiving week, we couldn't find the charger for our digital camera, so we just bought new $350 camera.