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Old 05-19-2009, 03:43 PM   #31
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Re: Non-smoking friends/wife

She hasn't started doing anything that annoys me. Now, she has STOPPED doing some things that annoys me. (Sorry, no details)
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Old 05-19-2009, 03:52 PM   #32
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SSHHHHHHHH, Don't tell anyone your not alone. I'm with you. She once smelled it and I told her it's snuff.

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My wife hates cigars, and doesn't even know I smoke. I usually smoke at friends' houses or I go out by myself and enjoy one by the lake! Someday, I'll come clean to her, but I need to stay in her good graces for the time being.
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Re: Non-smoking friends/wife

My suggestion to you guys hiding it from your spouses is to first smoke one with some buddies in celebration of something (aka wedding, anniversary, birthday, etc.). Then move to smoking the occasional on the golf course, etc. Worked for me.
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Old 05-19-2009, 04:05 PM   #34
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Re: Non-smoking friends/wife

This is a tough situation for anyone. Friends come and go, some are friends for life. If they are true friends , they will accept your smoking cigars. If not, maybe not true friends.
Wife, different story. It's about compromise, no right answers just a happy medium at best. 2nd wife was a bioootch and there was only one way, her way.
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Old 05-19-2009, 04:07 PM   #35
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Come on over to Walker, La Jerry. The wife and I will burn one with ya!!!!
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Old 05-19-2009, 04:12 PM   #36
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I agree with what Don said, it takes compromise, and not just from you but from both of y'all.
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Re: Non-smoking friends/wife

At home, its my rules. When I'm out, I don't smoke unless my friends do. Wife doesn't mind a bit.

As I told a relative (who I have little regard for) at Thanksgiving at my house when I lit up on the deck...
"If you don't like my smoke, go inside. Its my house. I don't like your kids, but when I'm at your place I don't expect you to lock them in the closet. Same thing."
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"If you don't like my smoke, go inside. Its my house. I don't like your kids, but when I'm at your place I don't expect you to lock them in the closet. Same thing."
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