If its her or the cigars and you are that happy with her......quit. If she cant accept that you are sharing in an occasional, so far, not addictive hobby that makes you happy, just think about down the road as you get closer and maybe married, what else will she have a say in? No drinking beers with the guys during football? No joining a pool league at the local tavern? No fishing trips,etc? Not saying she is that type of person but 2 questions come to mind.....1. How long have you been together? 2. I know you said you were in your early 20's if I recall. Is this the one you're going to hang your hat on forever?