Poll: Is CS moving towards an "R" rating?

[txmatt]

Who REALLY posted this?

Originally Posted by Matt R

I will vote for moving towards "R" rating. Personally, doesn't bother me or affect me at home or at work. But, I know for a fact that it does bother other people here. Some people have positions in their employment that could be jeopardized if they were to be caught with some of the things posted on here. Now, those things may be PG-13 to you or I, but what about to the lady in Human Relations who has had a history of sexual abuse or has been degraded in some form or another, in her past. Do you want to be responsible for her taking out her wrath on a fellow gorilla?? I know I do not. I also don't want to be responsible for a parent having to explain that those bouncing breasts in that picture aren't real, or are just a joke, to their young daughter.

A few have mentioned that they see worse at other sites. Is that an excuse to bring some of the things that are not as bad here?? We have a PM feature on the board here. This could be used to pass on some of the stuff that may be unsuitable to some audiences. As well, the e-mail feature is there too.

I have a feeling that the reason you don't see a few people on here as much as before is that they have either had the site blocked or are blocking it themselves so as not to "get in trouble". I know poker had this issue when another forum we used to frequent started allowing NSFW type posts. He didn't open them, except by accident, while at work, but the IT guys who track the internet use did.

So, IMO, we should try and tone it down a bit. If for no other reason, to show some respect for fellow gorillas who may not have a choice in what is G, PG, PG-13, R or XXX.

[Matt R]

LMAO! It was me, the real me. I'm also guilty of doing the things I think should be stopped. Let me also say, this ONLY pertians to Club Stogie and I hold no opinion as to my actions at any other forum.


Oh and I tried sticking my opinion up my butt.... wouldn't fit, as I've got someone's foot up there for sitting around all day AT WORK reading these message boards.

[txmatt]

Originally Posted by Matt R

LMAO! It was me, the real me. I'm also guilty of doing the things I think should be stopped. Let me also say, this ONLY pertians to Club Stogie and I hold no opinion as to my actions at any other forum.

Its good that you clarified this.. I was worried!

Originally Posted by Matt R

Oh and I tried sticking my opinion up my butt.... wouldn't fit, as I've got someone's foot up there for sitting around all day AT WORK reading these message boards.

Maybe some of the things you were considering marketing were in the way??

-Matt-

[P-Town Smokes]

I voted no, only because most of the things you read and see here are on T.V or Magazines. I normally look at the Habanos section and cigar ratings, but I do enjoy the Jokes. Kids are not allowed, or are not suppose to be looking at this club. PG-13 is about all that is here,(for now). Oh, by the way, This club can't be beat, even at PG-13 or R

[Nely]

Well this is my very humble opinion:
This is a great forum with most of the gorillas here being very civilized. What made me join was the great sense of respect for each other here. Now with all that said, this an adult's public forum, and like grown adults we will always have the occasional joke in which sexuality is involved. I do not approve that explicit, hardcore pictures be posted here. But the once in a while girl in bikini with fake boobs should not be offensive to grown men and women(never the less an avatar!). True, a fair warning that some skin will be seen should more than suffice, and like said before if someone finds that content offensive he/she should not click on the link. Wether you'are at work (like me) or at home. I come from a board that started out great and turned sour, but that seems to be the common disease in all of the boards, and this is by far the most tamed, civilized board I have ever come across, so good luck finding a better one.
To summarize we are a PG-13 with the occasional slip into the R zone. And that's the way I like it!

[linusvanpelt]

Interesting topic...considering yesterday's R is today's PG-13.

I voted yes, not only because it seemed to be headed that way, but also because I don't see a problem with that. I assumed all the LLG's are adults, with adult opinions and adult ways of expressing them. While scatalogical humor is not my favorite, I'm not against a good raunchy joke or prank or racy photo once in a while. Consider all the LLG's who ordered the Montecristo calendar...even after knowing what it contained.

Cigar smoking itself is an "adult" activity, just like viewing nudes, swearing, and so on. Consider a picture of a nude woman smoking a cigar. Is it appropriate or not??

The approach of a "gentleman's smoking lounge" is good, as long as women are invited, opinions are respected, drinks are served and no minors allowed.

[FunkyPorcini]

I don't have much to say being as new as I am but I think that perspective can be helpful. When I came here the feeling I got was that it would be in bad taste for me to post something that might offend a looser professional environment. I also got the sense that if I was to step over the line there would be plenty of Killa Gorillas to smack me around.

I've seen some racy posts around but for the most part the ones in bad taste have been ignored by the regulars.

[SilvrBck]

I think it's a real case of mokey see, monkey do. A few guys get rowdy, others jump into the fray and before you know it, it has degressed into a gorilla free for all. That's cool and all but not everyone is joining the party. So, a friendly reminder from the Alpha Male (PDS) will make people think a little bit about what they post. In my perfect world there'd be all sorts of R to X rated stuff all over this place but that's not why the jungle is alluring to so many people. Just my 2cents.

SB

[LasciviousXXX]

Originally Posted by Matt R

So, IMO, we should try and tone it down a bit. If for no other reason, to show some respect for fellow gorillas who may not have a choice in what is G, PG, PG-13, R or XXX.

Hey, I resemble that remark!

[IHT]

Originally Posted by linusvanpelt

Consider all the LLG's who ordered the Montecristo calendar...even after knowing what it contained.

i honestly didn't know what was on the inside of that calendar... but, that's art, not *****graphy.
also, i'm not holding any other females up to compare to someone in a calendar. (not aimed at your, Linus, just replying, so please don't take it that way)

anyway, i like what LasciviousXXX pointed out. maybe put an "R" that could be used for a "POST ICON" like we have at the bottom of the page. (not many people use them - i do every once in a while)

and i will just say again -
how can person A hold person B responsible for person A clicking a link that they knew would be rude/crass/raunchy/offending?

responsibility for ones own actions is what i was taught...

[LasciviousXXX]

You know, I think its all about discretion. You just have to be careful what you put out there.

That being said I've been to a few gentleman's lounges where the talk turns pretty dirty. I don't think it gets that bad here but its all perception anyway.

I think we're ok we just need to keep being good little gorillas and play nicely with others

[MocoBird]

Originally Posted by Nely

To summarize we are a PG-13 with the occasional slip into the R zone. And that's the way I like it!

I'm with Nely on this one. We are all adults. And as far as the Montecristo calendar....I was the one who posted it. I tried to censor her from an "R" rating to a "PG" rating.....remember the cigar cap over her....ahhh...can I say the "N" word now? What the hay...Her nipples as to try to not offend anybody. Sorry if I did.

[singlguy9]

I'm for keeping it fairly clean (we are all adults......me withstanding of course ) ..........most threads and forums are fairly self explanatory.......if you visit the Jokes forum, you might expect a little (or a lot of) tasteless humor. If it's not your bag, don't look.

Some other boards have an uncensored forum, warning those who access it that it may contain offensive or explicit material. But this place seems more grounded in discussion of cigars, which I like. I wouldn't change anything.

This place is pretty cool........civility is usually the order of the day.

[MocoBird]

Originally Posted by WillyGT

Hey PDS, there are some icons used when starting a new thread (smilies, a little note, and others), maybe there could be one that says "R" or something that advices is a mature Topic.

I'm with Willy on this one. Good idea!!

[Heartpumper]

Unless my computer is screwed up and I'm missing something, only a few of the Jokes could be considered "R" rated. Never seen potentially offensive photos or discussion on this site, except for counterfeit cuban cigars.

I would hope Club Stogie is NOT a family web site. As others said, cigar smoking and associated discussions should be for legal adults only.