Dating and cigars

[publicspeakingnerd]

Originally Posted by mosesbotbol

I mentioned it, in small terms on my profile when I was dating on line. I happen to have latched on to nice woman who does not mind cigars, and that is that... I have done the online dating thing off and on since 1999.

Always be honest about your wants on line, that does not mean to push to the forefront as there are a lot of facets to one's personality beyond just cigars. Most sites have different levels of canned tobacco use levels.

I am sure the cigar smoking will be a big plus for meeting guys, as that shows off an independent, confident spirit that is quite attractive to many guys. I would not worry, and if you meet guys who do not like cigar, why bother with them to start off?

Best tip for dating on line is to not waste time with people who are not a match. It takes more than a flashy picture and big income to find real attraction...

Which is why i like okcupid.com so much. I am able to weed out people more who I know i am going to clash badly with. Besides, I have been meeting people via the journal area they have on there rather than just the automatic match-o-matic, lol.

[publicspeakingnerd]

Originally Posted by DriftyGypsy

I am an Old fart...

I smoke cigars...

Those are the facts of life that I tell any woman... if she doesn't like it, then she is free to go out with someone else. It would be nice to find someone who shares your appreciation of cigars, my current G/F does, she does not mind me smoking in her car even. She on occasion will smoke also.

Sounds like you got a keeper!

[publicspeakingnerd]

Originally Posted by ky toker

Didn't you just start that "I'm back/Got bombed by the boyfriend!" thread?

yeah, I sure did. But, we aren't exclusive with each other.

[publicspeakingnerd]

Originally Posted by uncballzer

Being around med students, I do get that "you're going to be a doctor and you smoke?" attitude a lot! But of course, a lot of them I could just say "f off" and i'd be fine with it. Not much of a dating guy, but of course I'm still single then. But those few that I have been around didn't mind so much, or they did the occassional cigarette, so they couldn't really talk.

Here's a solution, all of us on here likes cigars/pipes, why don't we just set up our own dating site on CS? Although, if things don't work out, it'll be funny just to see who takes what cigars from the breakup/divorce instead of hearing about how he/she got the house/car.

I can just see it now: She takes your SUV,but you get to keep the your prized habanos!

[cvm4]

I was dating the g/f for a year or so before I started smoking cigars. She wasn't okay with it then but is okay with it now. She's my fiance now and sort of has to be okay with it