Should illuminatus's User Title be changed to "Afraid Of A Girl"?

[Shaggy17sc]

there are a few ways its gonna go.

A.) You tell her, She says "wow, ive been feeling the same way, lets see if we can make it work out" and yall start dating and live happily ever after.

B.)You tell her, She says "wow, ive been feeling the same way, lets see if we can make it work out" You guys try it out, and come to find out that it wont work out.

C.)You tell her, and she says "i just dont feel that way Nick, im sorry." Your friendship carries you through and your relationship stays the same

D.)You tell her, and she says " I just dont feel that way Nick, im sorry" Your relationship slides because its now got an added twist.

E.)You DONT tell her. For the rest of your life, every night when as you fall asleep, you think of her, and wish she was with you. You get to never know what could have been.

F.)You DONT tell her. ten years down the road, you call her up. she's married with two kids and a wonderful husband. You tell her how you were madly in love with her years ago, and she says "I wish you would have said something, i always wished we had something more"

A-D all allow you to go on with your life in one way or the other. Either way, you will be able to move on. D & F keep you wondering, and dont let you be all that you can be, or let you start looking for the love of your life, or make you pass it up because you are hung up on a "might be"

"Its better to regret something you did than something you didn't do"

[bruceolee]

Nick, you know where I stand on the issue so I won't add insult to injury. As this day draws to a close let it be known that revealing this stuff on Valentines day is a BAD idea. So, tomorrow morning (morning for you is my afternoon) pick up the phone and CALL HER! Doing nothing will get you nothing. The day you do finally say something to her I WILL DESTROY A CITY BLOCK with the level of ordinance I will send you! That my good Oompa is my promise to you.

[FpDoc77]

Originally Posted by kansashat

Only a fool doesn't fear women.....

good stuff.

[katietilley]

iluminatus,
no disrespect at all, i realize that i don't know you, but have you read greg behrendt? (ie. "he's just not that into you" [hey, its not just for the girls])
i'm being blunt and i don't mean to be out of order but my recent experiences give me liberty to say : "reset your standards; 'i will not go with a man {or woman} who keeps me waiting by the phone")
"you deserve to be available for the person that will love you for the person you are" ...so long as you are hung up on this chick, you are un-available for the person that is out there waiting for you. (just a thought)
there is so many more messages... it hits home, believe me. buy the book on amazon. you'll get it in days and it will change your outlook.
just an idea, i may be wrong. no offense at all. i've been there. please take this in good faith.
kao

[D. Generate]

Originally Posted by cosner63

I arrested a guy one time and his name was Michael Afraidofbear. Maybe we should call illuminatus Nick Afaraidofgirl.

That made me laugh until I thought, "Crap. I'm afraid of bears too." I mean who in their right mind isn't? There is that one guy they just made a movie about who loved them. But he got eaten.

Anyway, The Oompa Loompa should tell her.

[Shaggy17sc]

MFAO

Originally Posted by D. Generate

That made me laugh until I thought, "Crap. I'm afraid of bears too." I mean who in their right mind isn't? There is that one guy they just made a movie about who loved them. But he got eaten.

Anyway, The Oompa Loompa should tell her.

[Warhorse545]

Originally Posted by FpDoc77

good stuff.

But hey we all play with fire


Stacey

[Suburbahick]

Originally Posted by bruceolee

Nick, you know where I stand on the issue so I won't add insult to injury. As this day draws to a close let it be known that revealing this stuff on Valentines day is a BAD idea. So, tomorrow morning (morning for you is my afternoon) pick up the phone and CALL HER! Doing nothing will get you nothing. The day you do finally say something to her I WILL DESTROY A CITY BLOCK with the level of ordinance I will send you! That my good Oompa is my promise to you.

Hell, just to see someone destory a city block...

DO IT NICK!!!

[Nely]

Hey Nick, grow some marbles and go tell her what you need to tell her. Nothing has ever been written in history about cowards, well except that they are cowards. Go get her man!

[carbonbased_al]

Originally Posted by Nely

Hey Nick, grow some marbles and go tell her what you need to tell her. Nothing has ever been written in history about cowards, well except that they are cowards. Go get her man!

just say it.

[VoteKinky06]

You probably wont regret it. Even if it goes badly, you'll feel relieved that you gave it a shot. I never ever though I had a chance with my current girlfriend but I went for it anyway (It should be noted that I was stupid drunk, so I was a little more ballsy) and we've been together for two years now. However, if it goes well, don't do anything for her in the beginning that you don't want to for her for the rest of your relationship. "you would have..Insert:'done it' 'bought it' 'not done that' or 'cared more' here...2 years ago" has become the story of my life with this girl. And to think, I still love her. Prolly that sweet v-day gift. Anyway: GO FOR IT!!!!

[PadronMe]

she already knows. She's waiting on you take make your move.

[FpDoc77]

Originally Posted by PadronMe

she already knows. She's waiting on you take make your move.

Padron you are probably correct. Most girls know before you make your move.

[Darb85]

i just told her. she said she loves you but if you dont tell her tonight shes going to come date my roommate!

[Charles]

Change the name certainly, but please leave the avatar alone. Since I'm married my opinion on your love life means squat Nick. It can be humorous listening to dorky married guys give single men advice on women.