Should illuminatus's User Title be changed to "Afraid Of A Girl"?

[LasciviousXXX]

Originally Posted by RcktS4

Have you considered complete, candid honesty?
"Listen, I just need to say something to you and it's absolutely terrified me to do this for a long time - I have really strong feelings for you, and if I don't let you know about it I think I but if I don't I will regret it forever. So forgive me for blurting this out without a lot of class or romance, but the truth is that it's taking everything I have to be brave enough to justt say this to you. If there's romancing to be done, that can happen tomorrow. Today I just needed you to know."

Wow! You had me at hello..................

That's probably one of the best mini speeches I've ever heard, remind me to take notes next time you decide to wax intellectual Raney

[Franksmith]

Originally Posted by D. Generate

That made me laugh until I thought, "Crap. I'm afraid of bears too." I mean who in their right mind isn't? There is that one guy they just made a movie about who loved them. But he got eaten.

Anyway, The Oompa Loompa should tell her.

I'm not afraid of bears...

I'm afraid of the fine I might have to pay for killing the bear who's intentions were unclear.

If he is acting unpredictable....

Empty the clip and ask questions later


Oh.... to get ON topic...

Nick.... an old saying from my Bicycle racing days..

MAKE YOUR MOVE! (after praying about it)

[ky toker]

Quit being a puss! Man, I can't wait for my father son talks.

[partagaspete]

I have not read through this thread but I voted No and the reason is he has a logical reasons for not popping the news now. 1. she just got out of a relationship and 2. she is thousands of miles away.

Don't wait to long though my friend a cutie like that wont last long.

T

[Puffy69]

Originally Posted by illuminatus

Sorry, couldn't resist, had to throw my personal opinion in there.

Secondly, yes, I'm actually 50/50 Korean and Irish.. go figure, eh? Dad's full blooded Irish, Mom's full blooded Korean... the Irish barely shows.. but when I grow facial hair, it's blonde and red.. my hair also has red accents.. it's weird

Funny..Im 50/50..Irish and Flip..Dad full Irish and Mom full flip. 2 blooded man..Good luck on your mission.

[Puffy69]

Originally Posted by LasciviousXXX

Always better to try and see what could happen than regret that someone else beat you to the punch

XXX

Exactly..

[altbier]

Originally Posted by Shaggy17sc

Im sure most, if not all of you are aware that Nick (illuminatus) Has a girl that he wants more than anything in the world....and is scared to do anything.
While he has an (almost) valid fear, i still think his name should be changed to remind him daily that he needs to "bite the bullet" and get it out in the open so life can continue and this stops eating at him...

What ya'll think?


[SIZE="1"](just messin with you nick, if this offends we'll get rid of it)[/SIZE]

TELL HIM TO STAY AWAY!!!!!!!!

personal reasons ya know

[cameroncouch02]

Originally Posted by Rock Star

She's Cute..You better get Her before someone new does

He's right man. She is very cute, and you better get on the ball because you are about to get trapped in the "Friends Zone". And once you're in there, all hope will be lost. Dinner and a movie is a great first date for ya, and a good ice breaker. Then try to gear the next date towards something more along her vices. Slowly reel it in my BOTL.

[kansashat]

Does she like older men?

[neoflex]

I have an idea. Give me her AIM, and if I ever see her online I will give her a link to this thread. HeHe J/K. Seriously though good luck, woman have a way of making us big (insert slang for cats here). Now grow a set and make your move.

[smokemifyagotem]

True story: I met my wife 6 yrs ago while out with friends. I saw her across the bar (still can't believe we met in a bar!) and couldn't stop staring at her the whole time. Turned out one of my friends knew one of her friends and we all got to talking and eventually went back to her friends house to hang out. The whole time there I fought to gain the courage to ask her out. Well, the night flew by and everyone was saying goodbye and at the very last minute I sucked it up and said to her "hey, would you like to go out for dinner tomorrow night?"......

I know if I had not sucked it up that night we would have never seen each other again (she lived in a different town, 30 min away, etc..).

I think you know what to do...

[Lumpold]

Originally Posted by kansashat

Does she like older men?

Originally Posted by neoflex

I have an idea. Give me her AIM, and if I ever see her online I will give her a link to this thread. HeHe J/K. Seriously though good luck, woman have a way of making us big (insert slang for cats here). Now grow a set and make your move.

Man, sounds like whoever has that info needs paying, Nick... I'm sure he/she could make a packet out of these two

[joed]

Any of you guys that don't what it's like to be afraid of a girl - ain't never known a real girl!

I can't remember the movie -- the one character says "I'm not afraid" The other character says - "You should be"

It's OK to be afraid - just don't let it keep you from taking action.

[illuminatus]

Originally Posted by RcktS4

Have you considered complete, candid honesty?
"Listen, I just need to say something to you and it's absolutely terrified me to do this for a long time - I have really strong feelings for you, and if I don't let you know about it I think I but if I don't I will regret it forever. So forgive me for blurting this out without a lot of class or romance, but the truth is that it's taking everything I have to be brave enough to justt say this to you. If there's romancing to be done, that can happen tomorrow. Today I just needed you to know."

I took Raney's little speech here, and turned it into an email, then edited it a little bit, and sent it. My response was a resounding "ME TOO!!"





















Of course, after the editing, the content of my email was: "I like cheese"

[kvm]

Originally Posted by illuminatus

I took Raney's little speech here, and turned it into an email, then edited it a little bit, and sent it. My response was a resounding "ME TOO!!"




Of course, after the editing, the content of my email was: "I like cheese"

Sounds like you may have over edited a bit.
But a step in the right direction.