As you can see there is wisdom amongst the normal horseplay, this is serious as only you know, Do it Bro and we will be here for you!! for the down times as there will be. It's hard to believe you are doing him a favor, I know it feels like betrayal but Bro it isn't, and yes I have had to do this as I posted earlier. It was hard it is still hard BUT I do not regret it as she is at least on the road to recovery, time will only tell if she is going to make it but even she has told me Jail was the first time she got serious about recovery.
Best wishes Bro and if ya need to talk PM for phone number, This is something I do know about!