Some of you may have read about my father in laws fishing accident off of Baja. We are coming to terms that we will never see him again. The week after his accident his mother (my wifes grandmother passed away). The week after that my mother went into ICU with a major infection, shes a dialysis patient so these things sort of happen. She's been in the hospital for three weeks and yesterday when I left her she looked the best she ever has. Later that evening she went into cardiac arrest and they were able to stabilize her but because of being without oxygen to her brain there's a good chance of brain damage. My sisters and I have given the doctors a do not resuscitate request from here on out.