This is a discussion on Please pray for my fiance and her family within the Thoughts and Prayers forums, part of the Everything But Cigars category; My thoughts are with you, your fiance, and her family.......
As emotional & finite beings, we simply cannot understand why these things happen. It's especially hurtful when the victim is young. I hope for the sake of solace that he had a relationship with Christ & we can praise God that he doesn't have to suffer in this wicked place anymore & that he wouldn't want to come back if he could because Heaven is beautiful & perfect with no pain, no tears & no suffering.
I'm afraid in these situations, there is never much any1 can say to alleviate the pain of loss. But hopefully it will at least be a little comforting to know that you & your family are in the thoughts & prayers of so many people.
I pray that the Lord will bring you comfort & solace in this time & that if He won't grant understanding, we know that He has promised us the peace that surpasses understanding. May you & your family find that peace as you heal.