Wow Phil, Nice! I too wish Dave nothing but the best in his continued trial through life.
Some deal with a lot of crap in life, some think they do. There is only one person that can deal with their pain and that is them alone but that does NOT make it any easier to cope with. Luckily some of us have others to share the load while it is still at a level that can be shared, when it gets past that I can only hope we are all strong enough to make the best decisions.
Dave, if you somehow see this, be strong mate & make every day the best you can, it is all any of us can wish for.